slug: wishes-regrets title: Wishes & Regrets group: structures order: 9 summary: Express wishes about the present with wish + past simple, and regrets about the past with wish + past perfect. formula: S + wish + S + had + V-ed/V3 · S + wish + S + would + V(bare)
When to use it
Wish followed by a past tense form lets you express that reality is different from what you want. For present wishes (something is not true now but you want it to be), use wish + past simple. For past regrets (something happened or did not happen, and you want it to be different), use wish + past perfect.
I wish I knew the answer. (I don't know it now — present wish) I wish I had studied harder. (I didn't study hard — past regret)
The third pattern uses wish + would to express frustration about a habit or about something you want to change in the future.
Form
| Pattern | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
wish + past simple | Present wish (reality is different now) | I wish I lived closer to work. |
wish + past perfect | Past regret (reality was different then) | She wishes she had taken the opportunity. |
wish + would + base | Frustration / desired change (someone else) | I wish he would stop interrupting. |
Use were (not was) in formal English for the first person and third person singular in present wishes: "I wish I were taller". In everyday speech was is widely accepted.
Examples
- I wish I could speak Japanese fluently.
- She wishes she had saved more money before moving abroad.
- He wishes his neighbour would turn down the music at night.
Common mistakes
- Using present tense after
wish: "I wish I know the answer" → I wish I knew the answer. - Confusing present wish with past regret: "I wish I studied harder last year" → I wish I had studied harder last year.
- Using
wish + wouldabout yourself: "I wish I would be more confident" → I wish I were more confident (use past simple for your own present wishes).